Even if you don’t have a proper profile set up on an online dating site, you probably have an anonymous one that you use to creep around (If you’re not with someone). Online dating profiles are almost exactly the same as Facebook profiles except that there is a different motivation behind them. The pictures are all the same. Most people display photos that make them look like they have a life. I guess a profile is just like a resume in that you show what you think you have to and also what you think people want to see.
A typical woman’s profile will sound something like this…
I have a job that I love
My friends and family come first
I’m well traveled
I’m not into hookups
Don’t show me your dick
There’s not a lot of women out there who don’t want to have kids some day. The only ones who don’t want kids are women who already have kids and who wants to deal with that situation. If they only have a drug habit at least there’s a chance they can drop it. Kids are like diamonds not because they sparkle but because they are forever.
I’m looking for a woman with small ambitions who doesn’t like their family and friends. I guess one friend and a sister is okay. There’s not a lot of profiles advertising themselves as loners not trying to ‘live life.’
Of course, there’s a lot of BS on people’s profiles. If there’s not BS then there’s a great withholding of the truth. Almost everyone indicates that they drink ‘socially’ but everyone indicates that they ‘never’ do drugs. Ya fucking right. Many people like to be secretive whether or not they want kids or not…’undecided’ or ‘I’ll tell you later.’
Apparently women don’t like a guy who doesn’t love his job or lives in his mom’s basement. What if I live upstairs instead? They also want a guy who knows what he wants out of life. I thought being mysterious was an appealing quality?
What I’ve learned is that if you lower your standards enough there’s someone out there for you. I think that would make great Hallmark card. I’ve messaged with a few girls but never found any motivation to take it any further. I guess because the conversations were not very stimulating and also they didn’t offer me sex right away. It’s not that I think I’m too good for anyone. I just don’t think anyone is good enough for me.